From Miami to Manhattan, Russian immigrants are heavily represented in American communities, universities and companies. I would guess that in the United States, as well as across Europe, most people know at least one person from Russia. So following Monday's terrorist attack on Russia's second largest city, which killed 11 people and injured dozens, one would expect there to have been an outpouring of solemn, heart-felt tributes to the victims of the blast, right?
Well, yes and no.
First, world leaders wasted no time sending Russia their messages of sympathy.
US President Donald Trump spoke with Vladimir Putin by phone on the same day of the attacks, pledging Washington’s “full support," the White House said.
British Foreign Secretary Boris Johnson said he was "horrified" by the attack, adding that his "sympathies are with the victims and their families."
Yes, even Secretary General of NATO, Jens Stolenberg, paid tribute to the victims.
"Deepest sympathy to those affected by the #StPetersburg metro explosion, their loved ones and the Russian people," he tweeted.
Meanwhile, thousands of social media users around the world made their individual declarations of sympathy and solidarity to Russia.
However, similar displays of humanity went conspicuously missing from arguably the two most prominent and influential forms of 'social media' in the world: the Empire State building in New York City and the Eiffel Tower in Paris.
Here are just a few examples of tributes from the past: In January 2015, following the Charlie Hebdo attacks in Paris that killed 17 people, the Empire State Building provided an unforgettable tribute to the memory of those victims. The entire iconic structure, the very symbol of American might and ingenuity, was dimmed except for the upper crown section, which was illuminated in red, white and blue, the tricolor of the French flag.
Russia also expressed its sympathy, illuminating in Moscow the 540.1 metres (1,772 ft) tall Ostankino Tower - the tallest freestanding structure in Europe - with the French colors.
In June 2016, following a mass shooting at an Orlando gay nightclub that killed 50, the Empire State building turned off its lights for a weekend, while the World Trade Center complex became stunningly awash in the multi-colors of the gay pride flag.
And last month, three people in London were killed and some 50 injured when an attacker used his car to run over people on Westminster Bridge before abandoning the vehicle and entering New Palace Yard where he killed an unarmed police officer with a knife. Paris showed solidarity with London by extinguishing the lights on the Eiffel Tower.
In Germany, Berlin also showed its solidarity with the British people by bathing the Brandenburg Gate with the Union Jack, the national flag of the United Kingdom.
However, no Western country thus far has offered this very simple gesture to Russia, which has been actively fighting against the scourge of terrorism in Syria. No Russian flag draped across the Brandenburg Gate, no dimming of the lights on the Eiffel Tower, nor on the Empire State building in New York City, home to tens of thousands of native Russian immigrants.
Personally, I find that snub almost as distressing and disturbing as the terrorist attacks themselves. It is almost as if these Western countries believe they belong to some 'members only' club that is required to express condolences and solidarity only to those who live West of Moscow, pay their dues and know the secret handshake. Acts of terrorism are screened through a relativism filter where senseless deaths at the hands of terrorists are judged according to which ones deserve our tears and which ones do not. The scales of justice tend to tip on behalf of Western states. Could that club by any chance be NATO?
Whatever the case may be, the world got a whiff of stuffy Western exclusivity as Berlin offered an outrageous explanation as to why it opted not to drape the Russian tricolor over the Brandenburg Gate. A spokesman of the Senate was quoted as saying St. Petersburg is not a partner city of Berlin, and "exceptions should only be made in exceptional cases," as if the slaughter of 11 innocent commuters in a subway bomb blast was not exceptional enough.
And as far as being a "partner city" of Berlin, how does the German capital justify its decision for illuminating the structure for non-partner cities, like Orlando following the attack on the gay nightclub? Or for Jerusalem, after a man rammed his truck into a group of Israeli soldiers in January, killing four?
Incidentally, it should be mentioned that one country, Israel, did express its condolences and solidarity with the victims of the St. Petersburg attack by lighting up city hall in Tel Aviv with the Russian tricolor.
However, I think there is a much simpler explanation for this snub of sympathy and solidarity by some Western capitals following the worst terrorist attack on Russian territory in years. It all comes down to Russia's momentous decision - following a formal invitation from Damascus - to carry out a military intervention in Syria in an effort to rout Islamic State.
This unexpected move was, oddly, greeted with disdain across the Western hemisphere. Instead of welcoming Russia's vast military expertise to battle the ultimate scourge of mankind, the West welcomed the news with an attitude bordering on hostility, refusing to cooperate and share logistics to help the Russian military. At one point, Russia had to warn the United States not to attack Syrian government forces.
Nevertheless, the Syrian forces, with firm Russian support, have gone on to enjoy previously untold successes in maintaining the integrity of their embattled nation, liberating former terrorist strongholds of Palmyra and Aleppo, while halting Islamic State oil shipments out of the country.
Now we have to ask ourselves, is it just a coincidence that following Russia's successful intervention in Syria, Moscow has been hounded by the US with economic sanctions, as well as one ridiculous accusation after another - from being accused of hacking the 2016 US Presidential Elections, to hacking the US power grid, to spreading "fake news?" Not one of these things, incidentally, has been proven with solid evidence.
So what happened - or did not happen - on April 3rd, aside from the terrorist attacks, was just more of the same anti-Russia Western antics. The apparently deliberate decision to snub Russia following a terrorist attack is yet another attempt to punish Russia for daring to take a stand against the forces of terrorism, and what appears to have been a calculated and inexorable push toward regime change in Damascus (a project that won't go away any time soon if the neocons in the US have any say in the matter).
However, the proud people of St. Petersburg, who have experienced and survived some of the most horrific and challenging moments in world history, didn't need the bright lights of New York, Paris or Berlin when tragedy struck home, although it would have been welcomed.
They provided the world with their own brilliant light-show by once again uniting together against the forces of evil, displaying a depth of human spirit that is indeed inextinguishable.
Note: At the time of this writing, following an outpouring of criticism, it was announced that the lights of the Eiffel Tower will go down at midnight on Tuesday to commemorate the victims of the St. Petersburg bombings, the French capital’s mayor, Anne Hidalgo, said on Twitter.
Still no word about possible commemorations at the Empire State Building or Brandenburg Gate.
@Robert_Bridge